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What you could both do is request details for each other which might prompt them to put the other into the missing members list...
ah but if you get in touch they'll know you're not missing.
I'll just be quiet now.
You're almost there. What we do is this:
Someone who doesn't mind not being missing requests details for King and Noj. We then write again saying that we couldn't get in touch from the details provided, which means that those details are incorrect and suggest that they should be added to the missing persons list.
Winner.